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  • 8 things to do in the first year of your baby's life
  • Jennifer Biswas

8 things to do in the first year of your baby's life

As we get closer and closer to the arrival of baby #2, I'm remembering some of the things we were encouraged to do (or learned to do!) after Roy was born. Some were simple, some were hard, all were worth it! Maybe 1 or 2 will resonate with you if you've entered into parenthood in the last year. :)

1. Go on a date with your spouse without your baby. This one is SO important. Find a family member or close friend to come over and be with your child and leave the house. Even if it's just for a quick 30 minute coffee date...go! The earlier you do this the easier it is.

Tip: Go during nap time or after they're down for the night if you're worried about feeding or diapering or anything like that (although I'm sure Grandma or Grandpa will want to get some good cuddles with your baby)!

2. Take your baby to a restaurant with you. Again, the earlier the better. We used to time it out that we would get to dinner as Roy was napping and be home in time for his next feeding since breastfeeding was a struggle for me. When they're really little they sleep a LOT so take advantage of it!

3. Take your baby to Target (or the grocery store, etc), by yourself. The first time I survived Target with Roy I felt like an absolute champ. I went in only needing a couple things so it was the shortest trip ever but it conquered any fear I had with running errands with him. Now I LOVE taking him to Target because he has a ton of fun looking at everything and talking to everyone and we have a blast!

4. Share your frustrations with someone. Is your baby not napping and you're ready to rip your hair out? Call or text someone. Is breastfeeding so hard and you don't feel like you can do it anymore? Call or text someone. Are you just so exhausted and need to hear it's all going to get better? Call or text someone. Being a mom, especially a stay at home mom, is lonely so find a few friends who have been there and get them on speed dial. I can't tell you how many times I called my sister only for her to tell me "it's ok. it's normal to feel like that. it's going to get better". Just hearing those words made things seem less awful. You are NOT a bad mom for complaining about your child. You are a normal mom - we all get frustrated!

5. Ask questions! My cousin is a NICU nurse so I can't tell you how many pictures of poop or videos of Roy being a normal baby (when I was convinced he was having a seizure or something) she got. After she had her first baby a few months ago, I was happy to answer questions she had (and bonus, she felt ok asking me questions since she answered all MY crazy questions!).

6. Moms - let Dad help. The best thing you can do to empower Dad to bond with the baby and help out is to let him! He can do bath times or change diapers in the middle of the night. He can give a bottle once in a while or do tummy time each morning. Just because you're breastfeeding doesn't mean he can't have a role, you both just need to figure out what that is!

Rishi works long hours so he would do bedtime most nights - feeding Roy a bottle, getting him in pjs and putting him down. It really helped them bond especially in those early months.

7. Dads - get involved! It can be super intimidating in the beginning if you haven't been around kids but you'll figure it out! Roy hated it when Rishi held him the way I always did which was so frustrating for RIshi but he quickly realized Roy loved it when he held him belly down on his arm (which Roy would never let me do). Bonus points go to dads who take the kid out of the house (a short stroll around the block, anyone?) so mom can take a bath or simply sit in silence for 15 minutes.

 8. Laugh at yourself! For the first 7 months of Roy's life we didn't know there was such a thing as nighttime diapers. When we were in Disney with my family (and waking up to a soaked Roy every morning) my sister asked us if had tried them. Umm nope! Talk about a game changer! Also a game changer was putting his diaper on way tighter than we were (also one of her suggestions). You aren't a bad parent if you make mistakes! That's how you learn! I'm just thankful someone suggested improvements and we listened! Now we laugh at ourselves about that (as well as lots of other things) and share with new parents about the glory of night time diapers. ;)

all photos taken by Rebecca Petersen

I'm sure there are lots more tips and ideas for that first year of new baby but these are a few of our favorites! What's one thing you did the first year that I missed?

  • Jennifer Biswas

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